When I had children I taught them about football the same way it had been taught to me. I tried to teach them humility in winning and respect in losing, because that is what life is. When you win you enjoy the heck out of it, but always remember someone on the other side has worked every bit as hard....lost. And when you lose you give it up for the victors, go back to the drawing board and live another day. Note to self, avoid social media on big game days, and maybe even church. Some people think it is funny to mock an opponent, but I know that a football game is just like life, we are all one injury away from disaster....never mock. And if you do, be prepared for attrition.
My husband played football in high school, so he was a fan...not quite as rabid as me ( although he is rabid about cooking ) One Saturday I realized we had different priorities when he was watching Julia Childs and I was watching my beloved Longhorns. My son said when we were young granddaddy gave me a football and dad got an easy bake oven.
My daughter went to USC just as Pete Carroll took over as head coach. She worked in the football office and was involved in the equipment room and recruiting. Once my high school son was struggling through the Crucible in English class and I overheard him ask Ashleigh, "Do you know the most boring play?" She responded immediately, "Right up the middle?" Football....
And then there is what I like to call, "Order of YAC". Initials for yards after catch. It's not just catching the ball, and that's hard enough, it's what you do after the catch is made. How far can you run? Are you satisfied with just catching the ball or are you prepared to run like you are on fire with that ball?
I love the concept of YAC it reminds me to magnify every opportunity I get. You never know where even the smallest opportunities will lead or who you will meet. Life is just that interesting.......
So...
What will you do after you catch the ball?
I love what you taught your children. And you know what? you are so right about YAC. Great post!
ReplyDeleteI was afraid no one would get it...thank you for reading!! It is finally raining...actual rain!!
DeleteI was in Knoxville this past weekend for a game. Go Vols.
ReplyDeleteOff to a 2-0 start... what could possibly go wrong?
Well, we have to travel next, to Norman... ouch.
I tried to reply to you, but the box went to the regular comments...so I hope you can read the comment right under this. it was for you!!
DeleteSooners......that wagon. I hate that wagon. But no worries, you can do it...isn't it wonderful to love a team? And support them, and just be a part of it all? It is just wonderful.
ReplyDeleteI'm also a huge football fan! I love the Auburn Tigers which is hard when you live right between Clemson and South Carolina!
ReplyDeleteIn all of college ball, was there ever, I mean ever a better ending to a game than last years Auburn Alabama game? I must have watched that run back a million times....go Tigers!!
DeleteBeing in Philadelphia I definitely get it too. We are all about our sports here. When it comes to college football we have so many choices.
ReplyDeleteI always used sports to teach my kids too, the importance of being part of a team, being a leader and empathy for the other side.
Sports is such an honorable way to teach kids, and even when Ray Rice things happen it opens doors for our values to be taught. And great dialog....we still talk forever about everything!!
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